Tailor Was absolutely Terrified Of The Human World
Tailor, a street-born dog, came under our protection after a car accident left him with a broken leg.
Tailor loved his community carer and felt at ease around the other dogs he grew up with. However, beyond these familiar faces, Tailor held a deep-seated fear of everything else. And I mean EVERYTHING
It broke my heart to witness his panic and desperate attempt to flee, despite being led with care and kindness into a place of safety and love.
My heart ached even more as I watched him try to make himself smaller, creeping low to the ground, a clear indication of his fear and stress.
He was a shell of his former self.
He used to be a young lad who enjoyed the company of other dogs and felt relaxed in his environment. He was now unrecognizable, thrust into a human world that was completely alien to him.
I knew we had to help him adjust and learn to be happy again.
When it comes to helping a frightened dog adjust to a new environment, I've noticed there's a lot of conflicting advice out there.
Some people advocate for exposure to fears, while others prefer a more gentle approach.
Personally, I feel uneasy when I see scared dogs being forced to face their fears head-on, whether it’s a person, traffic, or a household object.
And the phrase "it's for her own good" often makes me cringe. It seems like something someone in a rush to fix the problem might say, or perhaps someone who doesn’t fully understand the situation.
For me, patience and empathy are key when helping a fearful dog feel safe and secure in their new surroundings. Taking the time to build trust and confidence at the dog's own pace is crucial.
Tailor was allowed to adjust at his own pace, without any pressure.
His comfort was our priority, so we initially kept him in his kennel area and garden.
Observing him quietly and calmly, we ensured that he was at ease.
Once Tailor seemed relaxed, he was introduced to a small section of the playground, again with no expectations for interaction. Our goal was to make this experience as gentle and considerate for Tailor as possible.
Our natural response to a fearful dog is to comfort with strokes & cuddles. This was not what Tailor wanted or needed & would have increased his fear.
Over time, Tailor began to explore his surroundings with more curiosity and less hesitation.
Each day, he found himself more comfortable, allowing a gentle hand to guide him through this new chapter of his life.
We knew the importance of patience, stopping whenever he showed signs of discomfort, always ensuring his comfort and trust were our top priorities.
His eyes, once filled with apprehension, now occasionally widened with interest, and though his body sometimes tensed, it was no longer out of the same intense panic & fear.
The unpredictability that once defined his actions was slowly fading away. Tailor was discovering, in his own way and at his own speed, that this new life held promise and safety, far different from what he had known before.
Tailor had found a new sense of security and happiness.
Each day, he eagerly awaited the familiar footsteps of his carer, knowing they signaled warmth and kindness.
The once anxious dog now moved confidently among his canine companions, his fears gradually fading away.
Trust had replaced his apprehension, and joy had taken the place of fear.
The gentle touch of his carer reassured him, and the delicious treats she offered made his tail wag with delight.
Tailor had discovered the comfort of a loving home, far removed from the harsh streets he once roamed, and he cherished every moment of it.
Tailor experienced a significant breakthrough recently.
Sitting contentedly with a stranger, he allowed them to gently stroke him.
In return, Tailor licked their hand, a universal canine gesture of "I come in peace."
This mutual exchange of communication was a joy to witness, showing Tailor's progress and ability to trust and connect with others.
Seeing dogs off the street facing kennel walls while people sit nearby, touching them and forcing contact, is truly concerning.
For those dogs, such experiences can be absolutely terrifying.
It's important to remember to be patient and kind, showing empathy towards these animals.
By allowing them the space and time they need to feel comfortable, we can help them adjust and feel safe. Please, let's prioritize their well-being and approach them with understanding and compassion.